
I grew up in a... Wait let me start that over again... I got beat up, then I learned how to beat people up when I was a kid; up to when I was an adult... Yeah, that sounds right...
I didn't grow up learning the secret fighting arts from some old wise man that lived alone in some zen-Tao-Buda shed in the back of some forien/American restaurant.
I had many teachers/senseis/sempis/masters/instructors/friends/whatever else they call themselves these days in many different places that taught me almost eveything you can learn on how to "hurt" another person. Or beat the shit out of a bag of sawdust.
Most of them taught and subscribed to respect and honor. When I realized what it meant to show honor and respect to my fellow human being, I began to realize that the "majority" of what I was learning was the exsact opposite of honor that I was suppsedly being taught. Really, how do u show respect and honor by smashing someones face in really effectivly? Really? Even if u are being attacked. A finger to an eye, a knee to the groin, yadda yadda,.. Fine... Not 3 pulls, a head butt, 4 systematic strikes and a finishing blow.
Regretably this came to light in my mind when I was competing and realized that if I had not pulled my strike at the last second becouse I wasn't really paying attention, I could have possibly killed my opponent. All of it had become second nature.
So, I guess I now subscribe to 1 view of violence. Just don't get hit. That's it.
It is entertaining actually to watch someone try their hardest to hurt you and fail over and over becouse all u r doing is dodging, blocking and moving out of the way... Even better, when u are just smiling the whole time. They eventually give up... Eventully. I wouldn't last long anyway since I don't train anymore and spend most my time behind a desk.
A couple quotes come to mind,
"The art of fighting without fighting" -Bruce Lee
"So, when punch comes. You not be there." - Mr. Miaggi
"When it's time to get hurt, let them hurt themselves" - Jo Fuin
So... I guess bending like a reed in the wind and moving like you are surrounded by bees is good advice when in a fight. And if you get beat up, atleast it was entertaining to watch...
An image of Cris Farly just popped into my mind.
To sum up this sporatic mess; the only ethical thing a "fighter" should teach you is how to not get into a fight in the first place. Self defence is another subject entirely.
"Everything else is just the LOTRM" - Lui Mourbauker
-- Posted From My iPhone

